Speak to Help
When I was younger, I had a teacher who constantly told me, “You’re a leader.” At the time, I didn’t really believe her—I was quiet, unsure, and trying to figure out who I was. But her words stuck with me.
Years later, I realized I had become the person she kept speaking over me.
That’s the power of words. They don’t just fill space—they shape souls. They frame futures. They help.
“So let’s agree to use all our energy in getting along with each other. Help others with encouraging words; don’t drag them down by finding fault.” Romans 14:19 (MSG)
Paul doesn’t say, “Be nice.”
He says: Help.
And how? With encouraging words.
That means encouragement isn’t just kind—it’s kingdom work. It’s helpful. It’s holy.
Here are three ways to put that verse into action:
1. Build Up
Encouragement isn’t optional—it’s essential. Your words might be the exact thing someone needs to hear to keep going.
“The tongue has the power of life and death…” – Proverbs 18:21
“How do you know if someone needs encouragement? Are they breathing?” – S. Truett Cathy
2. Be Intentional
Intentional means doing something on purpose—with thought, focus, and care.
It’s not just about avoiding bad words; it’s about choosing the right ones. Every word you speak either builds someone up or chips away at them. Before you post, text, or reply, pause and ask: “Is this lifting or limiting? Will this help or hurt?”
“Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” – Proverbs 16:24
3. Break the Habit of Criticism
It’s easy to point out flaws. But followers of Jesus are called to speak faith, hope, and love. Build bridges, not walls—with your words.
“Let everything you say be good and helpful…” – Ephesians 4:29 (NLT)
So before you speak today—pause.
Ask yourself: Is this helping someone rise—or dragging them down?
Because your words frame your world—and someone else’s too.
Let’s ask God to help us choose our words wisely.
Lord, help me speak words that build. Remind me daily that my voice can carry life. Forgive me for times I’ve been careless or critical. Teach me to see people the way You do—and to say what You would say. Use my words to lift, heal, and bring peace. Amen.
Make it Personal:
Who is someone you can encourage today with a quick message or compliment?
Are there any habits in your speech (complaining, sarcasm, criticism) that God is nudging you to change?
What encouraging words were spoken to you that left a lasting impact? Pay it forward.
Your Challenge:
Pick one of the phrases below and say it or text it to someone who needs it today. Don’t wait—your words could be exactly what they need to hear. Comment below ‘DONE’ once you’ve done it—let’s fill this space with life-giving words in action!
“I believe in you.”
“You’re making a difference.”
“You’ve got what it takes.”
“Keep going—it’s working.”
“You’re not alone in this.”
“God’s got you, and I’ve got your back too.”
“Your effort is seen and appreciated.”
“There’s more in you than you know.”
“Don’t underestimate the seeds you’re planting.”
“You’re right where you need to be—keep showing up.”
“You’re doing better than you think.”
“He who called you is faithful.” (1 Thessalonians 5:24)
